Let's put aside the soothing talk of Muslim unity and face a few facts. Most Salafis will not pray in a Sufi-dominated mosque because the latter are considered deviants at best,
mushriks or polytheists at worst. Throughout Muslim history there has been a long-lasting tension between legalists and lovers, spiritualists and scripturalists, ritualists and realists - striking a balance and creating overlap has been an ongoing challenge.
Salafis, historically, have been known for their scriptural rigidity, intense literalism, violent intolerance, and rejection of valid Muslim scholarship (past and present). Most Sufis are known for their pluralism, diversity, compassion, scriptural flexibility, and relative tolerance. Naturally, there are exceptions to the above general outline. And these attitudes manifest in various ways from long, unkempt beards and black niqabs to no beards and no hijabs. Ultimately, it s about a certain mindset.
More than ever, at this critical juncture in our communal journey, Western Muslims need to realise that we are in new territory and desperately need new
fiqh, thinking, and leadership to bequeath an Islam that is in harmony with our surroundings, and not in perennial conflict. The Qur'an talks about
yusr or ease as loved by God, and that our religion is not a
haraj or burden. Yet we're intent on making Islam as difficult as possible.
For example, when a giant Muslim scholar such as Shaikh Abdallah bin Bayyah (
hafidhahullah), issued a ruling permitting inter-gender handshakes, so-called Sufis suddenly lost their deference for him and expressed affiliation to a
tribal Tradition (please go to 'Messages' section and select 'Shaking Hands' with 109 comments). In contrast, leading Salafis like
Shaikh Usama Hasan lay down the gauntlet and certainly make for better Sufis than many who cling to the splendid paths of Rumi or Ibn Arabi. Why?
Erasmus on a visit to England in 1499 commented on how English men placed pecks on the cheek of their women. It was not a sexual, but a social, act. And it's the same today. Similarly, shaking hands between the genders in the West, and increasingly in the Muslim East, is not indicative of intimacy, but confident introductions. Please, let's not sexualize every social interaction between the genders.
Dealings between the genders altered significantly when the Prophet migrated from Makkah to Medina. Our fathers relocated from India to England: surely, some cultural observations must differ. What remains in tact is
tawhid,
risalah,
akhirah: the bedrock of the Islamic faith. What changes is our attitude toward
urf, or customs formed in certain contexts.
Tribalism and comfort zones in Sufism or Salafism increasingly mean little - it's about attitudes. When Sufis become like Salafis, intransigent and totalitarian, and Salafis become progressive and pluralistic, we have a duty to ask: where are we heading?
Ed Husain is author of The Islamist and a research student at SOAS, University of London.